For people who have been thru deep emotional turmoil, break ups, arguments.
For people who feel they want vengeance.
Who feel they want to get back at someone thru spite or revenge and having the last word.
For people who feel deep anger and feel powerlessness, deep hurt, loss, devastation.
Self righteousness and self triumphant .
Who feel they have to show the other person they are wrong.
I told you so scenario.
For people who are sensitive to criticism and Implied criticism.
Positive Effects
Learning to cope with such situations emotionally. Knowing you are not a lesser person because of the incident.
Peace, letting go, healing the inner child hurts which are blocks to moving forward.
Finding compassion, empathy.
Intended hurts from others run off you like water off a ducks back.
It becomes unimportant to have the last word
You are happy in yourself, have equilibrium.
Criticism does not bother you, you rise above it.
Cutting the ties threads to emotional upset and the incidents.
