Rose Cottage Flower Essences

Letting go of the Need to be Needed Essence

Essences are £12.50 each +p&p (30ml).

Many of us because we have been needy and damaged in our own lives turn to helping others.
Answers can often be found to your own problems in the issues of others.
We become givers, rescuers caregivers, all of these fortify our self esteem.
Mostly this comes from our early childhood experiences and perceptions.
We all like to be needed, but when you hold your hand up repeatedly to saying yes to other people all of the time this becomes unhealthy and perhaps time to look at yourself for a while is required.
It is a pathway of habit that needs to be excised.

However the need to be needed can become a way of life, a habit, so encompassing that you forget there are other reasons to live.

This can cause problems in your personal relationships and it may be that a good look is due. Letting go, allowing others to be themselves, make their own decisions, standing back, allowing others to make mistakes, explore life.

Childhood need for approval , attention, affection pleasing, love, the belief you are not worthwhile, not good enough, are just a few of the reasons.
A need to prove yourself, feel good, satisfied , none of these are incorrect, but can be out of proportion.

When you love, like , approve of yourself, accept yourself all your faults and foibles the need to be needed begins to dissolve.
Being happy in your own skin with no judgements is the aim.

Being addicted to giving ... a habit, a paradigm and a well trod pathway or groove or a mindset which need to be excised.
We need to excise all the thoughts, emotions, fears , blocks, chains and trains of events in this and past life time that have made up this scenario of having the need to be needed.

Being able to say no is imperative and boundaries created for your own well being.
Balance is the answer in your life and discerning what you need to do for yourself and your harmony and well being. Time to spend attention on you perhaps.

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